Any chance it’s in EU868, and that those responses are in RX2 (869.525 MHz), using SF12?
If yes, is your node responding to those? (More specifically: do you think that the node is actually receiving the SF12 downlinks in RX2, while it should be listening to SF9 for EU868?)
If it’s indeed SF12 but your node is (rightfully so) not responding to those, then your node might have missed an ADR downlink in RX2 using SF9, after which TTN retries in SF12. That’s nice, but it seems TTN might keep trying on SF12 then: